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health advisory Hospital Health advisory 2007-11-16 5:21:05

My girlfriend and I had a debate recently. And we are curious what the general public would say.

a) Would you break up with someone if they couldn't have kids?

b) What if they knew they couldn't have kids and concealed it from you for a number of years?

c) Do you think people who know they can't have kids should come right out in the beginning of a relationship and tell the other person?

Of course my gf and I have very different views on this subject and one of us believes that the answers to these questions would be the norm among most people. Please answer these questions not "philosophically" but how you actually feel.

Answer:

b) is a question of trust (principles). without trust you can't really be partners, let alone for life.

c) is a question of moral. morals come and go but are a big point of reference when looking for a partner, and the answer is, if you think question b) is a deal breaker, so should be c)

a) is strictly a matter of choice; no moral or principles involved, with a caveat: we are all subject to change our minds as we grow older or mature, and as long as we have acted in a fortright manner, it should be discussed again and act accordingly

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I would break it off, otherwise you will regret the fact that you never had children of your own. the truth is someone is out there wanting the same thing you want who is your soulmate