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health advisory Hospital Health advisory 2007-11-16 5:19:55

WHy Does it Hurt When Im On TOp When Having Sex and when my boyfriend is on top it doesnt?! shouldnt It be the other way around?

Answer:

With you on top, he can go deeper then him on top. I know that might sound weird, but with you on top, its a straight shot in, and if he is on top, you don't get the full effect of his thing. At least with you on top, you can control how deep he goes.

Does that answer your question?

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Is he hung?

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I know what you mean, I get the same thing. I THINK (although I don't know for sure) that it's due to just the angle and the way he's pressing against the cervix when you're on top, because of the way your body is sitting and gravity????. It went away for me after time though.

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it hurts my wife too... i believe it's because it is hitting your cervix or uterine wall - my best advice is to not just jump on top of him.. start out in a good, non-painful position, then once things are going good and you are well lubed, try on top. if that doesn't work, you may have to try to relax your yourself on top of him and see if your cervix can accept him, you may need toys to open 'her' up.. or just try other positions. ever hear of the kama sutra?

just a little fact, the vagina can only take in 4 to 5 inches, anymore then that, it has to go somewhere deeper, your uterus, you may not be able to accept at this moment and may have to work to elongate/stretch your skin a little with big toys.. but would you want to do that. just enjoy and have fun doing whatever you can, sex is not suppose to hurt. or get a copy of the kama sutra.

hope this helps.. enjoy & good luck!

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You probably have a very narrow vagina canal. You should visit a doctor, usually this is not normal.

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