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health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 19:02:15

told i loved her. I perhaps don,t show love enough having never had much, although they did their best they were ignorant. I will show more but find it diffcult sometimes. Just not used to it. never had a cuddle growing up enough attention and so getting use to it .

Answer:

I too have problems showing my affection towards my kids. I love them more than life itself, but I was brought up in a family where you don't say "I love you" or hug spontaneously. It's hard to fight your upbringing, but the only thing you can do is hug your grandkids (and kids) and tell them you love them as often as you can. Eventually,it will become a natural instinct.

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And the question is...?

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Whats the question?

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It does take time to get used to showing affection, but you will get used to it the more you show your affection. Take it slow. Touch her hand, pat her head. Give a light hug. The more you do these things, the more natural it will become over time.

There are other ways to show your love and that is by just being there for your grand daughter when she needs you and accepting her always - no matter what. Even if you never say the words, she'll know that you love her if you give her unconditional love.

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if u never had love when u was younger u might think that its normal to not show much love.