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health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 19:02:09

You can't control what other people think about you. All you can control are your own actions and reactions. Be the kind of person you know you are despite what they say about you. The truth will come out.

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Stop caring you mean?

Well that's just it... Stop! being the operative word.

Here's a secret for you... You control your brain function and emotions... It/They don't control you. Unless you allow it... By caring.

Think Mr. Spock and chalk it up to irrational... Then it won't matter.

"Stop ot or I'll bury you alive in a box."

Bob Newhart on Mad TV.

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I had that problem and whenever I drink or take my meds for anxiety I realize how its just extra negative energy when I worry what others think.

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Everyone worries about what other people think of them because as children we all worried about what our parents thought of us and wanted to make them happy. Our very lives depended on our parents love.

As an adult now, you have to realize that other people are not your parents and HAVE NO POWER over you. And, no matter what they say they think and feel about you, you cannot read their minds and so you'll never really know. Also, whatever they think of you is just THEIR opinion. As Salt-N-Pepa stated in their "None of Your Business" rap song, "Opinions are like assholes and everybody's got one."

The only opinion regarding you that you should be worried about is your own.

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Learn to like yourself more, I've pretty much alway's had low self asteem-But, I'm 40 now & ya know what? alway's wondering what people think or view you as IS a pure waste of time!! Because you'll never be able to please everyone, fact!!So, who the H*** care's what they think? it's what you think of YOURSELF really!!!

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