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health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 19:01:57

This guy has made many sexual jokes with me in them.He even made a joke about tying me up and raping me. Are these sexual jokes and raping me some kind of crazy fantacy of his and should I be concerned.

Answer:

I don't know if he is someone you have to be around or if you choose to be around him. So, the obvious answer is to stop being around him, if possible. Those jokes would make me very uncomfortable too, but I would not have any problem telling him straight up that you don't appreciate his sense of humor, and you want him to stop it immediately. He may be attracted to you, and is trying to let you know this by masking it with humor. Tell him you feel very disrespected, and if it doesn't stop, then you'll go to the next step to make him stop. Don't let him intimidate you.

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i do not know about your past, but with my rape when dad raped me he tied me up had a knife in my chest and broke my wrisrt while mom was watchig cuz he would killed her too.i ended up with a broken hand 50 stiches and raped at 9 years old. if my husband says that jokeingly or not i do not think i could stay with him. i heard that lot of men fantsies about that, its about the control they get off on i think your husband is sick to say that i am sorry to say but it sure is bothering you and i wonder why?

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well... these are some kind of weird thinkin of the guy... you dont be scared of it anyway... but do tell him that not to crack such jokes to you, he might just want to scare you... and no these r just not jokes...

show your dignity, if you dont like anything... remeber you have the right to not to stand any such mental abuse to you... if you an indian girl... then you should know you got the right to stub this guy.

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its a fact even i too say that and do that!!!!!!!!! it an indication that i will do yu shud accept i hope u like it tooo

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