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health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 19:02:41

i dont mean to whine but i am 36 and quite literally bad luck seems to think of me as a companion in matters of love , relationship and money . nothing very bad ; but i have not found the right girl to start my life with ; does positive thinking work to change my life ? or is all the dreams one has when one is young dead ..... i am feeling no self pity but a million tons of depression ... could anyone help . be frank if i am a loser say so please. btw i am not in USA but India .

Answer:

Positive thinking is great. You don't want to go around feeling sorry for yourself because that's not attractive. You can do whatever you believe you can do as long as you don't quit.

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First of all you are NOT a loser,there are millions of people suffering depression,and there is help to be had ,positive thinking does help ,but you may need the help of medication or counseling as well .i wish you well.

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you're experiencing depression. It can cause you to give up. but it's treatable with chemicals and such or you can talk to a minister. Good luck.

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Lol. You are not a Loser! Geeeeez, you are right tho about you having depression, sounds that way to me too. I think that we all go through a point in our lives (some would call it a nervous break down) when we realize that all out childhood fantasies are not going to come true. But you have to accept that, and KNOW that it's okay. Because fantasies were not meant to be realities and vice versa. You can however lead a very happy and successful life and STILL follow your dreams. They just begin to change and become more realistic as we ge tolder, that's all. I know plenty of men who have not settled down and gotten married till they were 35+, so you have nothing to worry about in this regard. AND YES, postive thinking does help. Your mind and body are connected, I don't know why more people can't realize this. If you are having to much trouble and find that you have not or are not happy for a month of more, then see a counselour to talk to for a while because you could have major depression. And you can email me if you want, because I think Indian guys are HOT! :) Later Sexy

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Positive thinking will help if you work at it I If you are depressed see a doctor

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Being in India is a privilege; I love your country I've been there all together for about 2 years. Great country.