Is it Depression
health advisory
Hospital
Mental Health
2007-11-15 19:02:32
After being fully refreshed your husband will appreciate you more and you'll both enjoy less time together, but more quality time than functioning by a clock. What's the good of 4 hours together if only 1 hour is pleasant? Best to have a good two hours together, isn't it?
Even a great marriage is a major adjustment--good stress, but stress. Is there any way you could work fewer hours? Clean the house less? Spanking clean houses are for when there are rugrats around. Take long romantic walks together? Eat lots of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains.
If this hasn't worked by the time your first anniversary rolls around, please go for counseling.
Google depression and see if the symptons fit. Then see a Docter. There are all sorts of good medications on the marked to help you. I sounds like you may be depressed. Continuous sadness, hopelesness, worthless, sleeping disorder, mood swings,and many more are some of the signs. Remember that you do not have the diplay all the symtons to be depressed.
You sound like my wife, she doesn't socialize, is always complaining of feeling unwell, can't get up on a morning, lashes out at me, takes for granted everything I do, very rarely lifts a finger to help, difference being you show emotion, my wife is cold with it and emotionally blackmails me by giving me the silent treatment if I want to go out with friends or more generally, when she feels like it. Sometimes you've got to force yourself to do stuff to get you going, you work long hours and have little time to socialize, make the most of the hours free that you have and show your hubby a little appreciation and you'll feel your achieving something. Most of all, relax when you get if from work, go to bed earlier, but make it worth your while by showing some love and attention in the hours you would normally sit and do nothing.