Im suffering from depression, how can i make him care
To answer your last question, he is probably showing the best way he knows how that he cares. A lot of people show it by yelling and trying everything they can to get it through that he wants you to stop and get better. As my boyfriend always says he doesn't know what else to do to get it through my head that I need to get better, so he goes to the last resort in saying that he will break up with me if I don't stop and get better.
Just hang in there, and try everything you can to try and show/tell him how this is effecting you and that you need him now for support.
this guy isn't worth being with. let him go and you get yourself to a doctor x
have sex with him. duh
You need to make it very obvious that you need him. He will only see it when it is out in front of him. I know this is going to sound very stereotypical, but most guys dont really see something until it is about an inch infront of their face's and it is plain as day. Apparently the cutting didn't show that you needed his help in his mind. It probably just showed to him that you are looking for attention and need to get help. In this case you don't need either.
I would have to say that you should talk to a family member or someone that is very close to you. See what they think. I would have to say, that you should take a week for yourself. Don't see him, don't talk to him. It is going to be really hard to do, but I myself have found out from past experiences that if someone really cares about you, and you take a week from them, they will be crawling back to you. If he cares about you as much as you think he does, he will want you back in a couple of day, but even though he wants you back, keep that week to yourself. It will just make you grow more stronger.
Sweetie I just went through this about 4 years ago. I had horrible anxiety ...I still do but it is better now....any way the guy I was with for 5 years couldnt help me...wouldnt help me...only thought about himself...and you know what? after all that crap he ended up leaving me...I was so depressed before he left I would cry constantly...the ONLY relief I got was writing in a journal...prayers to God...I wrote to God everynight. And eventually things got better for me...but it wasnt him who helped...It was me..and God. It is winter and you are probably in a funk due to the dreariness? I am assuming u are not in a sunny state...maybe try walking and going to tanning bed just for the vitamins you normally get from sunshine...and hang in there