Im so angry at life It seems like the nicer I am, the more people walk all over me Why
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2007-11-15 19:01:31
Answer:
Simple. People sense that because you are a nice person, that they can walk all over you cause you are kind. On one hand don't try to suck up to somebody, and yet on the other hand, you can still be polite. My advice would be for you to dump these people who are walking all over you because only a true friend or respectable person would not take advantage of your kindness and generosity.
You are bad at picking friends.
You answered your own question. The nicer you are..............Stand strong, stand tough, and stand proud. If they do not like you then f em. It's as easy as 123
No one can "walk on you" without your permission.
Quit laying down like a door mat and perhaps people will stop treating you like one.
I don't know I have the same problem. Maybe others view us as weak. Whatever the reason it is not right.
maybe you need new people in your life. im nice, and people dont walk over me because 1, i dont let them and 2, because the people i am nice to are generally nice people.
so find people who have the same interests as you, and who treat others humanely and kindly. they wont use you, i promise.
because your nice. You have to show them the other side of you. you can be nice but say hey wait just a minute I am not your maid, or debit card.
I totally understand you! You just have to stand your ground and not bend over backwards, so to speak. do whats right for you
I completely feel you on this one...and to be honest I do not know the answer. Some people on this Earth just don't happen to have any consideration for others and just act upon what makes them happy. I guess the only thing you can do is get a lil tougher and expect the worse from other people.
Some people, especially insecure, love walking over nice and caring people. Usually if you are nice people will try to take advantage of you in any way they can. It is fine to be nice to people and to be warm and caring, but never and I mean never let people walk over you like a rug. Don't be afraid to stand up and tell someone no...believe me you'll fill so much better once you do. Always remember you are a human and you have an opinion too!
Life is life, it's how you handle it that drives you nuts. Learn to say no. I'll tell you how. I have a 15 ft reticulating python snake, I am going away for a month can you keep her???? Set limits. You are trying to please too many people and not yourself. Find out why you do this and it will work itself out.
suvival of the fittest.....if you cant survive youll DIE.... truth fully the most people you can trust are youre 3 bff's
I always tell my friend not to mistake my kindness as a weakness. If someone would take on my niceness and use it for there selfish gain, then that person just lost a friend.
b/c there are lot's of mad uneducated people out there taking advantage of someone like yourself.The world used to be more respectful before than it is now, it's sad.Don't take anything you hear personally (or at least try not to let some idiot's words affect you), let them be miserable, and you be yourself, ignore them.
o jeez..r u in middle school or high school..we have a thing in middle school..if your to nice there is a extremely bigg chance you will get steped on..because u r more vunorable..girls in middle school are cats with claws..u need to scratch back!! the boys are like puppys..you have to tech them....you can not be always nice..