Im finally admitting something, please dont judge
You can get help and go one to lead a very happy and productive life.
Good luck to you.
You might need a 12 Step program of some kind
(Liars 12 step?). I am not sure or counseling for obsessive compulsive behaviour may be the real thing to help you..
Do a Google search and see what you come up with.
Good luck,
I lie too! It's so weird. I will tell the most elaborate stories... which are all so convincing. I also lie about the most odd ball things. If I cancel a plan with someone, I will make up the craziest story about why I cant make is.. when really all I need to say is "Sorry but I can't make it"...
Try typing, "compulsive lying" and "compulsive lying disorder" into yahoo! search and a number of links will come up with info on what causes it and what to do about this condition. That is more than I can give here.
What cured me of lying was the fact that it never works and the belief that God was privy to all my thoughts. One has to have such a good memory of what they have said pretending it is truth to keep from getting caught. When you realize that what you say may have an adverse effect on others and may actually even harm them you will quit. It always harms you in the end.
Lina It's difficult to change a character, but you could find the positive side of it.
You are creative, with a lot of imagination. You could write books, and that could be a real carrier for you!!!
I sometimes wished to be able to lie, as our life is a theatre.
I noticed my husband respected me more, the days I decided to simply lie. The days I expressed myself sincerely, he felt bored, and behaved rudely.
I always remember the day in my childhood when my aunt was telling her husband about me:
When this child will learn to be able to lie?
I learnt it very late, and I suffered to always tell the truth.