Im dating a heroin addict i need help
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2007-11-15 19:01:05
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His first love is heroin. He is the only one who can change. You can not change him. Hoping will not help him. He needs to help himself. It's hard to say but can you think of yourself in 5, 10, 15 years living & loving a smack head?
Just lay him down gently dont let him in your house he's a theif
He'll not give up until he hits rock bottom and to do that you will have to move away from him. Tell him you are doing it for his own good not because you don't love him but cause you do.
Yes he can get clean if he wants to. First he has to realise he has a problem and you can't make him realise that!
Most of society gives him excuses so good luck with your life. He has to want the new man without that "want" he will remain stuck in the old behavior. Are you stuck with him or demanding respect of the relationship? It isn't a relationship if only one of you are interested in it.
I have a friend who was an addict but has been clean for about 5 years, it was alot of hard work helping him through it, but he isnt my boyfriend or anything, i dont have to live with him. he did get proffesional help and i dont think he could have done it without help. it will be hard for you whatever you decide but i would say if he wants to quit and is willing to get proffesional help then give him a chance. (If you think hes worth it and ye have a future.)
tell him to stop doin drugs or ur relationship is over....then tell him he means everything 2 u and if he does drugs he could die and it would devistate you...tell him drugs are very useless and "y would u want 2 hurt urself?" is the best....if he continues tell him that u want 2 break up and u loved him...not his drugs.....and u wished it could have worked out....
hi there. i used to see this girl wondering about everyday with her addicted friends and always thought to myself she,s not like them , she is too good for that lifestyle. eventually i struck up a friendship with her , used to let her sleep at mine , feed her etc . people would say to me , what are u doing with her, u must be on it and other silly things ( i thought ). after seeing her for three years we had an argument , she stormed out . i knew she would be ill when she came back , so for the first time i bought her a tenner bag. she didn,t come back that night , so i thought i,d have a sneaky smoke, i knew how 2 do it after watching her 4 so long . anyway , after that first smoke , and me foolishly ignoring all the advice i ended up with a habit! wot i,m saying is , you cant help this person , like other answerer's, he will bring u down, and u will lose everything. so plz, if he loved u like u love him he would understand u wanting a couple of months away from him . he will sort himself out , if he loves u , so be cruel to be kind. i don't want to insult your intelligence but plz do not touch it ! i,m actually a year clean now, but your boyfriend will have total power over you if u do succumb. its hard putting my answer down in writing , STAY SAFE and good luck x
At least some people have the respect to answer your question politly!