Im dating a heroin addict i need help
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2007-11-15 19:01:05
Well if he feels the same way about you then ask him to change, by going to rehab or therapy or something.
if that does'nt work then i suggest you look ahead.
he can get clean, but only if he wants to. try and get him into rehab, if he doesn't want to then maybe you should leave. only problem is if you give him the 'me or drugs' ultimatum, he might just thing you're giving up on him, but it might sort him out too!
ive been there done that, in reality the majority dont give up they lie to themselves trying to convince everyone one including themselves,that they can change,your life will be a living hell,they lie they steal,im just telling you the facts.its your life only you can change it.good luck.
the truth is he has properly been using for alot longer than you realise you don't just stay clean and then start up again just like that it gradually builds up again like he properly just smoked it for a while then it would have been one hit a day etc he may have never been truly clean ether way he has been lieing for sometime hes had the help and been clean before so you have done all you can people like that need to want the help before they can be truly drug free you cant put your life on hold for someone like that break free get you life back if he really wants to be with you then he will get help but don't put your life on hold good luck
Leave him. He needs help but first of all he has to want the help.