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health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 19:01:00

missing two front row bottom teeth..living in a small flat on benefitss...have i got to accept the fact i may never find a beautiful girl i want in my life? have i got to accept the fact my dreams might never come true, my dreams of emmegration, of owning my own home with a good job, living with somebody nice~ this is what i still hope for.....do i have to accept this is too late to happen. or it never will? i hate britain, and want to move a way to a small unknown town in the u.s or canada. but i dont no how im gonna get there. please dont tell me emmegration isnt the answer because its what~i~wAnt. i clench my teeth with rage when people say moving away isnt the answer, i become furious and feel somehow theyre trying to stop me..i have low self estteem, and are very lonely with no friends. i await therapy for my bpd, borderline personality disorder.i have inner rage &poor impulse control, to act out when enraged, i worry it wont be able to be treated,like you hear some illnesses cant

Answer:

There are treatments for BPD. They involve therapy, medication, and a desire to get better. Only you can make your dreams come true. If a beautiful girl, a house, and 2.5 kids is your dream than you have to do things to make that dream a reality. Moping isn't going to accomplish anything. God doesn't make unworthy people. When you start believing in yourself the good things you want in life will start happening to you. As for the premature aging, if you are a smoker it will age you. If you are constantly depressed it will age you. If you want to look more like 20 instead of 30 you need to start taking care of yourself. Diet, exercise, daily stress reducing activities, and drinking plenty of water will go a long way towards making you feel better about yourself. I do all these things and I'm contantly being asked for my ID when I go to buy beer or lottery tickets. I'm 38! Yesterday someone asked my 13 year old daughter if I was her older sister. Don't despair all can be achieved if you believe.

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The only thing you need to do is change your attitude. Despite what you believe attitude is EVERYTHING. Speak the things that you desire as though you already have them and they will become yours. Even if you don't believe a word of what you're thinking or saying when you are being positive, continue to speak and think that you already have what you desire.