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health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 19:00:59

When I lose someone, I think back on the good feelings that person shared with me and I think about how they would want me to move through it, Honor them by being strong and moving forward. It will never get easier, it will just start to make more sense. One thing you'll always have is....the time you spent with them was yours and yours alone, and what a gift to have them in your life. Your pain is less than the love you felt, use the love to heal THEIR pain, because as long as you hurt ...THEY hurt too.

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Start by talking to your Doctor again...you may be on the wrong meds. If he doesn't agree, get a second opinion. Not all anti-depressive medication is for everyone...my doctor tried 3 different kinds until we found the one that works for me. I'm real sorry about your boyfriend..what a tragedy to have to face at such a young age...but know that dispite it...you are still here and God has a great plan for your life...it is to do good and not evil...He will heal you and comfort you...He is the bearer of life...being sad is a normal reaction to his tragic end...but staying depressed is not...you may have a chemical imbalance that does not allow you to heal...and keeps the pain fresh in your mind...seek help..please...you will only be a healthier person for it..and believe me when I tell you God has someone out there just for you....and you want to be healthy when he comes around, be it now or a few years from now...you need to be healed...God Bless sweetie!!

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I lost my best friend only a few months ago so i know how hard a time you would be going through , at the end of the day it all about time to cope and accept the death of the person you cared so much for , but if you don't want to be on tablets then just stop taking them only you know if they make you feel better, the doctor is only a guide but can't make you take anything !!