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health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 19:00:59

My boyfriend got killed 4 months ago and since then I've been on medication for depression. I still cry for him and miss him like hell but I hate the pills I don't want to be on them anymore. The doctor thinks that I still need them. What should I do????

Answer:

Grief is a difficult thing to cure. It is different for everyone. I would stay on the meds and continue therapy. The only thing that will help is time. You will never stop loving him, but over time, you will learn how to live again. Sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.

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ask GOD for direction..pray and he will confort ur heart.

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You must accept the fact that Death is part of life,. No one is immortal. Things happen

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I think loosing a person is very hard, But your docotr knows what is best for you. The medication takes awhile to get into your system, i will NOT make you feel any better about loosing him, but it will help you to deal with the loss, I am very sorry about your loss, just remember he is with you all the time now, and he IS in a better place...

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You need to get off the medication. It will only maker you feel more depressed. the doctor just wants your money. Get out there and enjoy life. You can celebrate what life he had and not be depressed about the short span of it. Eventually you will move on. Enjoy life! Get off the meds!

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If you feel uncomfortable then do not take the pills. You may become relient on them. I am sorry about your boyfriend and I know that you need to recover, but you must also keep in mind that you have to move on. You are barely 22! If you feel that you should stop taking them than stop, but only if you know that you won't lose it without tem.

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If your still missing him and depressed you probably would want to stay on the pills, if not you might get even more depressed and do something you regret later.