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health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 19:01:24

at times it may seem that u insist onething and others do something else. what we shall do when no one is on our side is, that we can just say what we are upto. to the end we can try to persue them in our way.

but i dont think we can be successful everytime we do that.

so many a times we ahve to let it go, we ahve to do everything we can, but the most important part of it is, just be there while it happens. what i feel is we should put best efforts to understand the completely in a situation that no one gets hurt.

but my heart says that tolerance is better than to be a in a dirty argument.

THE WORLD IS PERFECTLY ELASTIC, WE ALWAYS GET WHAT WE GIVE,SOONER OR LATER.

jagan....

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Vipassana meditation

all things pass, this will also change

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ive been through that. what i did was let go my thinking that "somebody must be" on my side. it's hard to realize that your closest friends and love ones may not understand you when you need them the most but they can't be blame for it. they would like to understand but they just can't because they just can't. then i thought nobody has the responsibility to be on my side.. i have to face life as it is and continue fighting for what im fighting for if i am sure that what im doing is right. when no one was on my side, that's what i did. i took a lot of time thinking that maybe nobody was on my side because i was wrong, you should take that time to think too. but after that if you know for sure that you are right, then stand by it and nobody needs to be on your side. you can do it. :-) you have to trust yourself.

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when i am with me, i put myself in their shoe and see what am i wrong about which is driving others away from taking my side and if i was wrong i would try understand others, and if i wasnt wrong then i would think what is going wrong that makes me sound wrong and try solve that or either adjust with the time.

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When this happens to me in life, I usually ask god to help me realize if I have done something wrong. If no one is on your side, then maybe this is your journey to realization!!! I am not trying to be mean, but we ALL make mistakes. If one can realize they have made a mistake, then your journey is just beginning! Good Luck!

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i find a good swift kick in the *** works wonders

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