INDECISION-I have a major problem making decisions and it is really impacting my life (or lack of on
health advisory
Hospital
Mental Health
2007-11-15 19:01:15
Most people either learn from the bad decisions they made, or they just take someone else's advice and don't question it. I have done both, and I prefer to make my own bad decisions and learn from them--it really turned me into an adult.
If this is really a major problem for you, try to find a psychiastrist or counsellor. There is a disorder called "Dependent Personality Disorder"; it might be a sign of that or some other mental disorder.
There are alot of decisions we all have to make in this life, some big, some small but none the less it needs to be done to function in society and get to in life where we want to be. Making decisions should not have such a huge impact on your life, sounds more like a form of depression or confusion that you are suffering from, and your doctor might be able to help. Talking things thru with a lifeline counsellor may help, they are neutral and very understanding, You don't have to think about a universe full of choices, just the ones you need to make. Really is it so difficult to decide where you want to live. Stick a pin in a map if you have to. I wish all the best
base ur decisions on urself.. wat u want ! wat u need ! wat will make u a content and satisfied person....i had my folks decide everythin for me .. they chose wat courses i ti\ook in school as much as i didnt wanna .. i did it cause if i hadnt id have hurt em.. i did everythin they wanted me to do... result being i failed and that disappointed em even more.. they dont say it but i know ! my bros were good in science so they expected me to be as well... so i dd it..... my bros are well off now.. but im not... n i know i failed em..but how long am i gonna live someone elses life ?? my previous gf wanted me to be someway and i did it for her...but she left me too...im not here for a pity parade.. all im sayin is unless u know ur life is urs and no matter how hard u try to live it for someone else it wont work... never has with me.....so u have to start living ur own life and for urself........ i dont know how but it comes to u once u have the conviction to go through with wat it is u desire outta life and ppl... dont let ppl control u........it never helps... humans are insatiable u cant always satisfy everyone.. so how bout satisfyin urself... !!!!!!!!!
You said "a universe full of decisions" those for others yours are only 2 yes or no, so make up your mind or get help and medication.
I experienced this during a very stressful sad time in my life.