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health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 18:59:47

i have 2 children 1 is having a baby and due in 12 wks, still living with me, she also now is depressed, so i feel guilty that it is my fault, im findig it so hard to cope with my kids, yet i also have my partners kids at the weekend to look after, they stay fri til mon morning, every wkend, my partner works permanant nights so i have the kids al night and obviously through theday while he sleeps, i went to the doctors 2 wks ago someone has been visiting me from mental health,they want me to go into hospital for a wk, so they can help me further, i cant go i have to look after the kids,my partner has to work he cant have time off work,he is alway going about paying the bills etc, if i didnt look after his kids he would have to then he cant work so the bills dont get paid and he will have to sell the house, its his house not mine,so i will be homeless, so i have to look after his kids, there mum will not have them at wkends under any circumstances i feel im not strong enough anymore

Answer:

any sort of depression can be tide over by faith in GOD and sincere prayer.

Your prayer is from your heart. Further You must have to understood the fact that God is present in our heart. This can be realised in meditation. Further we are the creation of our own destiny. As per Hindu sacred religion, we carry all good and bad deeds life after life. There is no end unless we pray for unification of self with the divineliness.

Hence there is always a possible way to complete mergence with God in this life by a simple and wonderful meditation

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Your letting it all get on top of you. Do what the doctor says and take the week off. It will benefit everyone if you are back to your best and are able to cope with everything going on. Surely 1 week off work wont be that bad for your bills. Which is more important your health or your wealth. Have a break love. Good Luck x

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I get that you're in the spot that you're in, but I don't feel he's good for you. Why is your daughter who's about to have a kid, still living with you? Why can't the 2 of you get your own place. You need to leave him, not be his personal slave. Life sucks and it's hard from time to time but if you're not going to take care of you, you're only damaging his kids and yours. Your daughter's decision to be depressed is not your fault - it's her choice to stay depressed and/or not get help. And it's stupid to be depressed when pregnant - she is hurting the baby.