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health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 18:59:47

when we have a arguement i allways back down cuz iam afraid of loseing her cuz she has a very short temper she went to anger management but shes still the same can any one come up with sugestions ????

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How long have you been married? How long did you date before marriage? What do you argue about? How did you meet?

Please provide some more details and maybe I can give some very practical suggestions!

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Stand up to her. Your mental health will deteriorate. She is bullying you.

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i got a bad temper too very bad and my daugther does also. but i have a reason to have a bad temper with all the bad things in my life.. findout why's she like that ? what is giving her that bad temper and when shes lose's her temper just let it wash over you and don't let it affect you tell her calmy " are you done?.. can we talk?"

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get to a marriage councillor before something bad happens.

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Stop backing down.

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Sorry but that's just the way you guys are. She is short tempered and you are always ready to back down when things get rough. If it was any opposite you 2 would separate long time ago.

Only thing she could do is to try control her temper a bit harder and for you to tell fer if you feel that fight is about to start so she could relax a bit.

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At first ,u should find out why she is so bad tempered,There should be some reasons why she gets angry easily,like sexless or somerthing?.

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Why does it have to get to an argument? It takes 2 to argue. Just walk away, go somewhere else but say, I will not speak to you when you are like this you are ruining our relationship. Then when a lot later when she has calmed down say, now can we just talk about this in a civil manner. But try to meet her half way, where no one wins but no one looses. Life is full of compromises. If you both can't agree to this then the relationship is doomed to fail or forever be volatile.

I wish you all the best and remember there should be no winners and no loosers. Just 2 people who rub a long nicely together.

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stick with your word don,t let her rule you she will respect you.

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run - get a divorce then get therapy ' assertiveness training ' or just get right aggressive - dont let a woman rule you it wrecks a man more than anything

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loving her doesnt mean youre her doormat,you have i right to your opinion too, be more assertive, youre not there for anyone to take their anger out on, why not try an assertiveness course?

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