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I have problems but Im afraind to get help

health advisory Hospital Mental Health 2007-11-15 18:59:41

I am a cutter and I have anemia ...I have a need to loose weight and I can't I'm tired of feeling fat !!!!I'm afraind to tell my parents what I feel ,...what I'm going through!! I'm also confused about my sexuality im not sure if I like both genders.I had boyfriends but I never had a kiss {I only did lip to lip} !I told my friends about 1 month ago my problem and they told me I was just confused because all the relansionships I had failed~!.And because I had never do anything with a guy.But I think that far beyond.Because I know I like girls when I see them .I can tell my parents my sexuality problem because that againt our religion ! God made the woman for the man not woman for woman.What Can I do ?Should I get help?I can tell my parents anything! ...I know I have bulimia because I almost faint at school and I went to the nurse and she told me I have anemia ,Im not 100% sure because I don't have bulimia or anorexia {I'm fat}

Answer:

any sort of depression can be tide over by faith in GOD and sincere prayer.

Your prayer is from your heart. Further You must have to understood the fact that God is present in our heart. This can be realised in meditation. Further we are the creation of our own destiny. As per Hindu sacred religion, we carry all good and bad deeds life after life. There is no end unless we pray for unification of self with the divineliness.

Hence there is always a possible way to complete mergence with God in this life by a simple and wonderful meditation


Why are you crying out for attention in all these ways? Are you really ready to get down and focus on you? There are a ton of ways I can help you (even online), if you are ready and willing to put yourself first and work on you. You can read through my last best answer for some ideas on things you should maybe pursue. <be careful of some of my answers though - there are 2 of us responding on this account from time to time, so one minute we are helpful and the next minute we are, well, um not so nice, or right : )>.
you should talk to your doctor or a school counciler,or a psychiatrist someone who will listen and not tell your parents. You need to get help soon or this condition could seriosly hurt or even kill you.
You seem to be having too many problems to be helped by this type of online services and the best will be to confide in your parents and seek professional help. Your fatness could be linked to your anemia (YES, ANEMIA MAKES YOU FAT SOMETIMES). You may not have bulimia but simple hunger pangs because you starve other times. Your bisexuality can be discussed with the doctor not with your parents. So, dear child, go ahead and tell your parents about your other problems. God bless.
Problem is I am not sure how old you are, I am going to assume you are over 16yrs. You sound so confused I really feel for you, your self esteem sounds like it has hit rock bottom. Should you get help? I think you know the answer to that most definitely YES, tell your parents that you feel you need to be under the care of a GP and quickly, tell them as much as you feel comfortable with. Sexuality can be confusing when you are growing into womanhood, and I don't feel it is a issue you should be dealing with at this very moment, so try and put that aside for a while. Get your health on track, being a cutter is a huge cry for help, be kind to yourself and in time everything will fall into place. I truly wish you the very best for a happy and fruitful life
I answer this only as support. not for the right answers. as you can read above there are a lot of good answers. but in agreement with them. get help. and sooner than later. as for the bisexuality, I understand that you don't want to speak with your parents about that. again talk to a professional who can help. hope this helps good luck
Ok hun, you are dealing with a lot of different things and it is overwhelming you. You need to know that most kids your age are going through something similar. And you need to know that your parents went through something similar when they were younger.

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