I have a borderline personality disorder diagnosis, im 29, is there any hope for me i wanna so despe

get well and get a life, achieve my hopes and dreams. but in my moments of darkness an low moods, i cant see how im going to achieve, a good job, my own home, emmegration from the uk, how ill meet someone nice...i feel so lonely, abandoned and isolated right now, living in a small one bedroom flat, i have no friends, and find relashionships difficult, im scared this state of being will last forever..seeems like therell be no end to it..every person i see that asks questions about it, the answers paint so much bleakness about it, saying its difficult to treat...so what am i supposed to do with that? are you just gonna leave me with that response, saying its difficult to treat im doomed, thats it? how can i be strong? is their hope for me?

There certainly IS hope for you! Of course in your bad times you will feel everything is hopeless.

What you need to do is focus on tiny little steps. Decide what little step you will take first, then keep doing that until you've got it then move onto something else.

Try not to think about work and finding a partner etc. That comes asfter you master all the other difficulties you face. And it WILL come.

Work out what in your illness you can begin to change. It is NOT easy...it will be challenging but it is the only way that you will get to meet your goals. It's important to force yourself.....very important...I can't stress this enough.

Personality disorders can be very varied and so it is difficult to be specific here but you will know the things you need to tackle.