I hate my voice
ok i know this is going to sound so silly, but i hate my voice! It's so deep and horrible, I have always felt abit insecure about it and it makes me hate talking out loud. I was ok until once a fella said to me "you have a weird voice" i sorta laughed it off..but realised it wasn't just me who thought it was horrible. However I also thought perhaps it was just that lad, i mean he was abit weird in general himself. But today I went to see my counsellor (eating disorder/depression), it's only my second time seeing her but she stopped me whilst i was talking and asked me had bulimia affected my voice..it took me a minute to understand what she meant and then I said to her no i have always had a deep voice and she was like aw right ok, but now i am super paranoid about it............it's another thing to add to the list of things i dislike about me!
Answer:Think of Kathleen Turner or Katherine Hepburn. Two amazing sirens with the smoky voices. In fact, I also have a voice like yours - or the two sirens - and people have told me that I have a "whiskey voice". Like you, I used to be freaked out by it,. but when you get older and learn how to USE your voice - oh mama!! Men will melt at your feet. I swear, this kind of voice on the phone... I work in sales and believe me, I can sell ANYTHING to a man over the phone!! You just have to grow into it, you learn how to make it work for you - probably like some of the other things I bet you don't like about yourself.
