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health advisory Hospital Mens Health 2007-11-15 5:38:24

Finally, when you wrote "It makes me feel angry and irritable - like it takes away from our own personal intimacy because he's already "spent" himself.". did you mean spent as in physically, so that you cant have sex with him in the mornings after you return from the shower? Or did you mean spiritually spent, as it seems like cheating to you when he masturbates?

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Men are always like this,even my brother does the same to his girlfriend.Whenever he sees a hot girl he can't stop talking about her for at least two to three minutes.It is just normal.Sorry to say i am a man too,but its a fact.So if he just wont make life better for you,there are lots of other men out there ok?

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hes trying to get that first quick one off so he can last longer in bed.. hes doing it for you!

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What actually amazes me is that people think masturbation is an abnormal behavior. It is normal! Everyone who is sexually sophisticated masturbates and knows that it is a normal healthy part of sexuality.

If his masturbation interferes with your sex life then he's crossed the line. If not, no worries. Masturbation does not stop just because of access to a healthy sex life. How do you know that thinking of you isn't what gets him going?

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he still loves you, he just wants to masturbate by himself and have some privacy different people will think differently

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It is no reflection on you. He is a man and he will masturbate! Hes been doing it long before he met you and will do it the rest of his life. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you or want you. Don't be confrontational be accepting. Join him, ask him to do it with you. Keeping in mind that men need their alone time.

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