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Why does my boyfriend please himself while Im away in the shower

health advisory Hospital Mens Health 2007-11-15 5:38:24

I believe we have a positive sexual relationship, but often times in the morning when I'm in the shower I will find signs that he has pleased himself. (On easily available nude pics of other women.) I've confronted him about it before, and he apologized. Yet, he still continues. Is this a sign that he finds me unattractive or that he doesn't want me? Is this normal behavior? How should I address this issue? It makes me feel angry and irritable - like it takes away from our own personal intimacy because he's already "spent" himself.

Answer:

When Ive been in a relationship, I still masturbated although admittedly alot less than when I was single. As I enjoyed the sensation (which is very different from couple sex) and the alone time.

It didnt mean that I loved my partner any less or wasnt attracted to her, and same thinking went for her. We selfpleasured together and alone. I would have it natural that people still masturbate, even though they are coupled.

Dont you still masturbate?

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You say youve confronted him? Have you actually asked him why he masturbates, instead of confronting him?

Ultimately, it may come down to fundamentally different view regarding sexual behaviour in a relationship that you both have eg. One person might consider looking at porn, while the other does not

If it was nude photos of you, he was enjoying himself with. Would you still feel angry?

Is the reason for your anger, that he is looking at nudes of other women or that he masturbates alone?

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