Why cant my husband get his penis hard
health advisory
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Mens Health
2007-11-15 5:38:39
Every so often , months apart my husband cant get his penis hard. I have even had fear of cheating because of it . The last three days hes been student teaching and then working till late. Could alot of work have to do with it...I mean were onley 22 .
Answer:Hey Michelle! If your husband is working too hard and under stress, he would have difficulty getting an erection. Please be patient and understanding. You can help him by massaging his penis. Don't cheat on him, that would make matters worse. Then again there may be medical reasons why he can't get a "hard-on". In that case he should see a doctor. There's more to marriage than sex, although sex is very important and enjoyable.
Yes, if he is tired or anxious it could lead to an inability to get an erection. If it is as infrequent as months apart then don't make a big deal out of it. There is nothing more likely to make a man unable to get an erection as being worried about being able to get an erection.
i had this problem a few years ago i was about 24 my girl Friend was concerned about me cheating. There are few things that caused this working a big day, anxiety worrying about trying to please her especially when it hadn't gone hard in the past, id stress about it happening again, drinking alcohol or taking drugs and diet. my girl would always worry that i didn,t find her attractive or she was doing some thing wrong.thats not the case.