What should I do this guy
He was a very slick person. He got you, and then enlisted your help to keep him from the punishment he deserved. Then, when the coast was clear, he had no reason to stick around.
Sorry that this might appear harsh, I don't mean to be. But I don't want to sugarcoat this to make it easier to swallow.
Contact a female crisis line (try to find one in your area that specializes in rape cases) or a lawyer and tell them everything. The crisis line will be more familiar with your situation, and will probably be able to advise you better.
Please don't feel bad about not realizing what he was up to. Smarter and more experienced women have been through this. And there are many victims who are far, far from adulthood.
And don't let this sour you on men. As in every area of life, there are those who are the snakes and scum of society, but there are some real princes out there too. Someone who will make you forget we have cold, callous, calculating people in the world. I hope you find yours as soon as you are okay with it.
Just remember: This, too, will pass.
And I hope this helps.
Best advice I have is stay away from this creep. Anything bad you might do will only hurt you in the long run, so learn this lesson and be a little more aware of the next guy who wants to have sex with you. Reporting him to cops is a lose-lose situation for you, under the circumstances. Sorry, but that's the way our system works. You said, he said. Take care.
Call the police and have him arrested for rape. I can't understand why you disrespect yourself so much that you didn't do this the moment it happened. If you were playing around, are you sure you were raped or just seduced?Rapists don't stay because they are running from the police. This all sounds consensual. How can you be raped by "playing around" and letting him stay? At least get tested for STD's and pregnancy. Do you care enough to do that? He took advantage of you because you let him Rape? I think not. Put this behind you and keep your legs closed.I hope you learned something.Sounds like you're jealous of the other woman. One does not talk to a rapist. Your story is twisted.Value yourself Respect yourself and know there is a big difference between rape and seduction.Have a better year.
