What is there that helps you not finish to fast or is 1 to 2 minutes long enough

In medical way 2 minutes is the lowest phisiological point. Under that you are suffering from something that can be named as illness, and if it lasts for longer time, you should go and ask for advice from urologist. About 20-30% of the male population is suffering from pre-ejaculation. There's a many reasons for pre-ejaculation, and it can be caused by either patologycal process in the organism, or much often psichological.

But, my intention wasn't to scare you. It is common problem, which if not caused by tumor, infection, or as some might say - real medical case, can be solved with methods out of the medicine (also not many people are comfortable with sharing this kind of problem with psichiatrist).

You can go to sex shop, and buy sprey that delays ejaculation, but keep in mind, sometimes this kind of helpers can make bigger and permanent damages to your health.

The most efficient way to solve this problem, and it may seam lame, but it's love. If you love the one you sleep with, and trust her, you should not be scared and ashamed to tell her about the problem, and try to solve it together. At the end if the result is succesfull, you both will be satisfied.

I'll tell you few exercises, but both must cooperate: You should penetrate, and stay in as long as long as you can, but you and your partner must not move at all. You'll notice that even when you're not moving, after some period, which can be very short sometimes, you will ejaculate. This is a proof that the ejaculation comes from psichological stimulation. But after couple of times it shouldn't be happening again. Other method is when you feel like ejaculating, stop moving, also your partner have to stop the movement, but the penis must stay in, and after the feeling is gone, go on what you have been doing before. You'll notice that after some period of training, you will last longer. It is very important to mention, this exercises are not sex. You and especially your partner might not like it, and not enjoy in it. But if you really try, it can be very helpfull.