Sex question
What should one do if he likes to go "down there" but his girlfriend doesn't? I don't want to be the only giver here...
Answer:give and ye shall receive brother, it make take some time for her to reciprocate but it should happen. good luck
just wait until she is ready
You have the chance "to light her candle" if you're doing it right . .
It's entirely up to her. Unlike men, not all girls are keen on oral sex.
I'm sure you can please her in other ways.
Find another girlfriend.
The more you give the more you get. Make her extremely happy (and satisfied) that you are in her life and she'll likely do the same for you. And try presenting the "option" to her just as she's scored a goal.
You can't rush it, especially if you respect her.
Is that the most important part of your relationship for her to perform on you or for the 2 of you to share intimacy? Eventually she will be happy to return the pleasure you are giving her. Or, she will feel guilty because it is feeling so good to her and she has not been able to give you a gift that is deserving of the skills you have displayed.
Now, if you are just down there and not pleasing her. You have to step up to the plate read some books to help you.
Also, you did not state why she won't perform fellatio.
good luck.
Take her like she is or find someone who will. Girls are just sooo self concious!
Why not be the only one. If you love your girlfriend, your job is to please HER, not yearn for yourself to be pleased.
Chow!!
donot rush hings give her time and put aside your animal instinct