Question from a virgin
I am a 29 year old man, my fiance is 28, we've been daing for 2 years and are getting married in a year (just got engaged last night!!) We are both virgins (feel free to laugh, I understand :-) being 29 and all ha ha) and we plan on staying that way until our wedding night (her wishes that I've chosen to respect).
Anyway, I have a couple honest questions:
1)Even tho I know she has nothing to compare me to, I still want it to be good and satisfying for her. Is there anything I can do to practice to help me last longer? I've heard there are "drills" so to speak when a guy "pleasures himself" that he can do that makes him last longer although I dont know what they are. Any advice?
2)What position(s) do you recommend? What have you found to be the most passionate/intimate positions? I really want our sex to mean somthing, you know, be more than just raw sex. I want it to be a man / woman, husband / wife bonding experience. Also, if it matters, im 6 ft tall and she's only 5 ft 1 inch
Answer:Congratulations on your engagement! About being a virgin..a couple of things.
First, because you are both new to it, and you are choosing to wait until the wedding night you will both probably be stressed out and tired. Be aware of that, and the effect it might have on your first time.
Secondly, try not to put too much pressure on yourself to make everything "perfect". The first time rarely is perfect. But it will beautiful. There is something very romantic about going about things the way you have.
