Question about stopping ejaculation to prolong sex
when they say stop before u ejaculate to prolong sex and pull it out and start again do that really work? won't u c u m anyway - i thought guys can't control that anyway - so how is this method working? also - u can't hold it in when u gonna c u m right or wrong?
Answer:True, u can't hold it in when u gonna c u m, there is a 'point of no return'. When he crosses it there is no holding back, that's when he goes all goofy and lets it out.. He should know when that point is getting close, that is the time to pull back. He can practice when he masturbates and you can help him cause you are getting benefit from this too. It works if he has the mental power to stick with it until he has it mastered.
yes we can hold it back ..
it's all mind over mater
if your partner won't ...get a new one
You have to listen to yuor body to know the signs.
There is a book out there "The Multi-Orgasmic man" that might give you some assistance in this matter
Read Masters and Johnson for the technique. Cannot describe here as it is graphic but the book explains how they cured the problem of being too fast, too soon.
Men who have the experience know how and when to control orgasms. I know how to control mine. It took a little time, but recognizing the "feeling" and knowing when to react helped me to learn. Keep in mind too that all men are different and some have to do other things to control it, i.e., pulling out just before, squeezing the tip of the penis, tightening up the PC muscle, etc.