Public bathrooms
when I'm in a men's public bathroom...I have a problem...whenever I'm next to another man in a stand up stall I always get an erection...like when I hear their panys unzipping or just the fact that im next to someone with thweir pants unzipped I guess turns me on...and it's so annoying b/c then I cant urinate when I get an erection..please help me with suggestions...its really annoying me cuz i cant go to the bathroom anymore in public!
Answer:you are gay if a dick gives you an erection
uh, so are you like, gay? you have to be gay if you refer to mens underwear as panties!!!!!
You need to re-direct your thinking. Stop listening for zippers, & looking for others in the stalls next to you.
Simply focus on peeing.
I have a similar situation in that when I wake up in the night to go pee, I can NOT look at any clocks to see what time it is, or I'll start stressing over how much time I have left to sleep, & the stress wakes me up so I can't return to sleep.
This is self-defeating behavior.
Either try peeing in the urinals, or concentrate so you focus on Math or some other benign subject while going pee in the stall, to block out other sounds.
Perhaps you need to avoid going to public bathrooms altogether. If you can't hang on until you get home, why not pop into a bar or cafe and order a drink? You'll then be able to use their facilities, hopefully without any distractions!
Im sorry to say that u might be a fruit loop ( dont sleep in a sleeping bag with a man or you could be a fruit rollup)
Why not just use the stalls?
Well, first of all, this does not mean that u r gay! So what if you get an erection! Try to think, when you hear the zippers, that they are, I don't know, maybe snakes that wanna eat u so u must finish as quickly as possible ( accept if this too turns u on...). Or try something like that. Think of something that u don't like, and try to escape away from it by peeing faster... I don't know... Or just avoid public bathrooms. hope I helped
Maybe you could wait until you have to go really really bad, and then you will be so desperate to go you wont even think about anything else. But then waiting too long can be bad for you... so maybe you can just pretend like you have to go really really bad, and imagine that unless you pee immediatley, you will pee your pants or die.
don't think about it, or just go in a stall.
You should either start using a stall or, if that's not possible, try to think of something else while you are standing at a urinal -- something totally unrelated to sex or hearing a guy unzip.
How could this be anything except a homosexual issue? I've never thought about anything sexual when I hear a zipper in the neighboring urinal. Sometimes I go into one of the stalls simply because I don't want to stand shoulder to shoulder with the grubby dude taking a whiz there at the urinal. Public restrooms are the most non-sexual places imaginable.... Even in a girl's restroom, I probably wouldn't get in the mood.
Go in a stall where you can be alone