Preferances (Another annoying question by a girl)
At this point, I almost want to give up on guys. I feel women and men are just so different, it could never work. Do you really want a relationship? Do you want to be there for a woman, and are you willing to support her, and accept her support in return? Secondly, how do you feel about shorter women? Do women who are emotionally unstable(not completely crazy, maybe bipolar or depression) just seem to complicated to even get involved with? Would you be willing to date a woman who has a mental disorder such as depression? Do you like women who want to experiment with sex, or does that turn you off somewhat?
I鈥檓 sorry this is just another annoying question. But I just feel like I don鈥檛 even want to try, because I鈥檓 afraid that it won鈥檛 work and I鈥檒l be devasted. I have this image of how the average man is. I know men aren鈥檛 like robots, I know men have emotions, and I know men can be smart and sophisticated. I'm just so confused, and distrubed by this.
Answer:yes
yes
i feel they complement me
bipolar no a tad depresed after we go out ok
maybe depends on how well i know her
i love women like that
its not that annoying to have a female ask a question
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I want to share one of my favorite quotes with you. "The way we deal with loss shapes our capacity to be present to life more than anything else...the way we protect ourselves from loss may be the way in which we distance ourselves from life." Rachel Remen.
Being let down in a relationship is devestating. I recently went through this myself. And, youre right. It is easier not to try. Much of the time it seems simpler just not to get involved, not to be vulnerable. To be alone means to be in control of your own life with no one to disappoint you but yourself. But, this is very restricting. It is important to allow yourself to open up to someone again. Maybe it will work, and maybe it won't. But, youll never know unless you try. Being devastated, and upset is just as much a part of being human as being elated. We have to take the bad with the good. If we dont, we are consciously choosing to potentially miss out on something wonderful.