Boyfriends "too big"
I've been with my boyfriend for a long time and we're in a serious relationship. He has had sex a few times before, but i'm still a virgin. I know i'm ready for it if the right time comes but i'm physically scared to do it. His penis is very very large (i'm a virgin but i've still seen my share) and i'm scared it either won't fit, or the pain will be too great. Any help ?
Answer:Use plenty of lube and be sure he takes his time. Remember that your vagina will stretch big enough to accommodate a baby's head without doing any damage and without any "practice" or preparation. With your bf, you have plenty of opportunity to gradually stretch the surrounding tissues until he can fit inside, no matter how big he is. Also, the more aroused and eager you are at the time, the less you'll notice any temporary discomfort.
And ultimately, there's no law that says the only way to have sex was through intercourse.
if u are scared then u are not ready
You're gonna have to learn to relax and that means being comfortable around him, penis size or not. So if you're scared you're probably not ready.
For virginal vaginal sex, you're gonna need to probably do a little exercises like finger yourself to get use to intercourse.
Learn some relaxation tips, play some relaxation music. sniff on some aromotherapy - lavender, clary sage.